The Art of Conflict

The art of conflict I’ve finally learned is this:
Offer a sincere and quick apology,
own up to what I did wrong in my own words,
and take time to recognize and empathize with how the other person feels.
It took living alongside someone to truly understand
these simple but essential lessons.
It’s not just about marriage.
Friends, family—anyone who shares life with me is a gift.
In the heat of an argument, I often raise my voice,
focused only on my own side.
That’s when distance creeps in.
The moment conflict arises, I need to set myself aside,
look from the other person’s perspective,
acknowledge their feelings,
and apologize without delay.
Knowing how to fight well is something I must never forget.

apology, empathy, perspective