The Difference Between a Heart and a Fingernail

There’s a saying:
“People worry about a damaged nail,
but not a failing heart.”

It’s a reminder that we often focus on what’s visible—
while ignoring what truly matters.

Those who stay grounded in what’s essential
have the courage to make hard choices.
They know how to let go of what’s less important
without hesitation.
That kind of clarity takes practice.
It needs to become part of how we live.

Yes, a fingernail matters.
Even a tiny splinter can be painful.
But the heart—
that’s life itself.

Choosing what’s truly important,
knowing what comes first,
recognizing what’s at the core—
these are habits we must train into ourselves
until they become second nature.

priority, essence, courage