The so-called “ecstasy of feeling love” benefits us in many ways. It helps us become more generous and courageous. It opens our eyes not only to the beauty of our partner but also to the beauty of the world. It suppresses mere animal lust. In this sense, love is the great conqueror of lust.

In a state of ecstasy, our bodies respond mysteriously. Oxytocin, the happiness hormone, is released. It’s secreted during the intense pain of childbirth and when breastfeeding a baby. It’s also released when we feel love or forgive someone. Our hearts become more generous, filled with mercy, peace, and courage. We are reborn as beautiful people.